A seminary professor who taught the Christian graces of love and forbearance for forty years until he retired. Occupying himself in his retirement years, he poured a new concrete driveway to his house. Finished, he went in to rest and get a glass of ice tea. Returning later to view his proud achievement, he discovered that the neighborhood kids were putting their footprints all in the wet concrete. The angry professor chased the kids down in a rage and beat the tar out of the ones he could catch. Hearing the commotion, the professor’s wife rushed into the yard, saw the angry professor thrashing the kids, and began to reprimand him: "What a shame," she said. "For forty years you have taught love, forgiveness and forbearance. Now look at you. You’ve lost your testimony." To which he replied: "That was all in the abstract. This is in the concrete.
Groan, okay I know, but this reflects the plight of many Christians who know they are to live a new life, but find their old one haunting them. The apostle Paul in Colossians 3:5-17 addresses this very issue.
The passage begins by saying in verse 5, “put to death your members upon the earth.” This should put to rest the misconception that many Christians have that our spiritual transformation from our old self to our new life in Christ is passive. This is an active imperative verb; therefore it is something in which we are commanded to participate. God does not take over our life and change us; we must lay it down of our own accord, then He will begin a righteous work in us from the inside out. What are these sins in us that we are to put off? Paul gives us a list of twelve. Now if that was all there is to it, the apostle could have stopped there, but he does not. This is because of another big misconception: We can shake the old sin from our members by merely having the will to change. It is not about will power; it is about the self-control to replace what the sinful behavior of the past with righteous disciplines. Correspondingly, Paul also list twelve things we must “put on.” The two lists are contrasted in the following table:
PUT OFF - PUT ON
Fornication; 3:5 - Compassion; 3:12
Uncleaness; 3:5 - Kindness; 3:12
Passion; 3:5 - Humility; 3:12
Evil Desire; 3:5 - Gentleness; 3:12
Covetousness; 3:5 - Patience; 3:12
Anger; 3:8 -Forbearance; 3:13
Wrath; 3:8 - Forgiveness; 3:13
Malice; 3:8 - Love; 3:14
Railing; 3:8 - Peace of Christ; 3:15
Shameful Speaking; 3:8- Thankfulness; 3:15
Lies; 3:9 - The Word of Christ in music; 3:16
Racial and social prejudice; 3:11 - Dedication to Christ; 3:17
The passage also includes motivation for change. Christians should hate sin. It is what keeps people away from the love of God and condemned to an eternity in Hell. Paul tells us in verse 6, “For it is because of these things that the wrath of God will come upon the sons of disobedience.” Furthermore, we are “God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved,” As God’s adopted sons and daughters, we are to work to resemble our new Father, instead of our old one. “Holy” means separated unto God in Christ. “Beloved” is a perfect passive participle, indicating a past action having continued effects. We can overcome the hold these sins have upon us if we begin to know righteousness and seek to develop those godly characteristics in our life. Determine that you are going to put them on, and do so to the utmost of your ability.
First, in verse twelve, Paul mentions compassion. Compassion is not always a natural state of the human heart. Jesus becomes for us a model of compassion in that “while we were yet sinner, He died for us.” Compassion means to care for other’s needs and conditions. It requires that we look outside of ourselves. Next, we are told to put on “kindness,” that is, sweetness, moral goodness, or integrity. Kindness requires that we do not stop at the emotional stage of compassion, but reach out to meet another’s needs. Continuing in verse 12, he mentions two qualities: “humility” and “gentleness.” These could be combined into the idea of meekness. This is power under control. It is voluntarily not asserting yourself over another. Christ is a perfect example of meekness; all the power of God at His disposal, yet “led like a sheep to the slaughter.” Finally in this verse, Paul mentions “patience.” Patience is the quality of endurance that will not be exasperated. It is the self-restraint that will not quickly retaliate a wrong. It is the opposite of wrath and revenge.
Patience should manifest itself in the next two qualities mentioned in verse 13: bearing with others and forgiving one another. The word “forgive” here means to forgive graciously. The possibility of complaints and quarrels of Christians against one another is conceded in Paul’s statement “whoever has a complaint against anyone.” We must forgive others as the Lord forgave us.
In verse 14, Paul adds the discipline from which all others must flow: “love.” Put on love over all the qualities of compassion, kindness, etc. Love is like the belt that binds all our garments together into one united adornment. Here, love is agape, that wide-reaching affection, good will, and benevolence such as Christ has toward men. Love is the bond which binds the church together into a perfect unity.
After love is in place for a foundation, verse 15 tells us to “let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts… and be thankful.” The peace of Christ is to rule in our hearts. I think about this like a policeman; whatever seeks to disturb the peace has to be arrested. We must not permit angry emotions to rule in our hearts, rather let the peace of Christ rule your minds, will, emotions, and conscience. We are called individually to enjoy God’s peace, and also called as a group in one body unto peace. The fruit of righteousness is sown in peace and only grows well in peace. No good progress can be made while fighting is going on. To me, the context reads that we should be thankful that we have been called in peace into one body. The peace of God is to police our hearts, and in our group, whenever there are strains within the body that would tend to make it fly apart. For this we should be thankful.
To share the peace among ourselves, leading to encouragement, Paul includes in verse 16, “let the word of Christ richly dwell within you, with all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another with psalms and hymns and spiritual songs.” The word of Christ is not to dwell within us, and then remain there; we are to teach and admonish (or warn) one another with this word. One of the most effective ways to teach and admonish one another is by music. So often, when I am need of encouragement I sing a song to the Lord. Those words bringing forth with them the scriptural truths that I need to connect with my Lord. I will also start the day with a song to help set me in the right spiritual mindset from the start. Admittedly, I have spared most people outside of my family the intonation of my voice, but certainly if such brings blessings to me it should be shared with others.
Finally, I have added Paul’s admonition in verse 17, “Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus.” This call for total dedication to Christ prevents the need for the list to go on ad infinitum. Such discipline of our mind, emotions, and action truly allows God to being to spiritually transform us in to the image of His beloved Son.
In short, Paul is telling us that if we continue to do the things we did before our encounter with Jesus, we cannot expect any true changes in our life. However, if we walk in righteousness, God will change us from the inside out. In my life, I have memorized a very similar list that Paul gives us under the title of the “fruit of the Spirit” (Galatians 5:22, 23). These have become a plumb line for me to judge my progress toward God’s standards.